There is no word in the English language as deep or mysterious as “love.” Love is explored in songs, poems, and books. There’s a Greek god and goddess of love, Cupid and Aphrodite. There’s an entire holiday devoted to expressing our love for others.
I love a good picture of a jockey, trainer, or owner kissing their horse after a hard-fought race as much as the next person, but the “We love our horses!” rallying cry in response to when outside pressures have questioned the sport’s safety is not enough.
Saying “We love our horses!” serves a purpose, but the horse racing industry needs to show it.
Love can be expressed in many ways. Gary Chapman’s book The 5 Love Languages that has sold more than 12 million copies and been a New York Times bestseller for a decade discusses five: words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch. Understanding these “love languages” and how they express love in different ways unlocks “the secret to love that lasts,” as Chapman claims as the subtitle to his book.
So, I’d like to introduce “The 5 Love Languages for Racehorses” and share how one racehorse trainer I admire has fluency in all of them. In no way am I suggesting that this is a comprehensive list or that I am an effective love linguist like Chapman. However, love for the horse drives my equine broadcasting career, my work with OTTBs, and my aspirations as an eventer.
Meet Kim Oliver
Kim Oliver is a fifth-generation horse trainer.
